after mentioning Stephany Lewis, I accepted a friend request from my best friends sister, and low and behold her best friend is Stephany, she mentioned her two brothers of whom i have met one, as i have said before , my memory is very short term, think Stephany said her brothers are Ian and Martin, I was right about her friend Norma, she has fond memories of the lad i used to go up to her house with, but she dosn't remember me at all, thats me in a nutshell, friends with everyone ,but not remembered, when i posted pictures of me on anyone from the shore road area when i was 10 or 11 i got a load of replies, saying i remember you now, i had been on the forum for a couple of years before anyone remembered me, lol