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Argo

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Re: Northern Ireland has the highest rate of suicide in the UK
« Reply #150 on: October 11, 2019, 01:21:06 PM »
To be honest I don't think there is a one shop solution to this terrible situation. Suicide is as they say a long term solution to a short term problem. I speak as someone whose family has had 3 of the circle who took their own lives. So you are left behind with the question why? After talking about each of these events the truth is there is no one truth to the decision of someone to give up on life. If you are religious I suppose you could leave it to your belief  you will one day meet up with the person in the next life. But speaking as an atheist no such outlet is possible. At the end of the day you have to find some sort of acceptance, be you a believer or not, that the event is what it is after it happens. But at the same time trying to find those who have such feelings to understand no matter what the problem is there is a solution outside that of death.

Suicide is not an answer it is a question.
 

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Re: Northern Ireland has the highest rate of suicide in the UK
« Reply #151 on: October 12, 2019, 07:03:14 PM »
 those left, are the ones to suffer, and suffer they do. I have been there.

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Re: Northern Ireland has the highest rate of suicide in the UK
« Reply #152 on: October 15, 2019, 02:09:51 AM »
"This documentary contains some troubling subject matter, and viewer discretion is advised."

"Suicide: Our Forgotten Troubles"             
https://youtu.be/R5KHNGaZFbk



" 'Suicide: Our Forgotten Troubles',... is a documentary about the harrowing nature of spiking suicide rates in Northern Ireland."

"It tells the story of how Northern Ireland's transition into peace leaves a generation of Ceasefire Children vulnerable to suicide."

"This documentary follows the story of one victim, as his friends reflect on his life, lack of available psychological support by the state, and the common misconceptions of mental illness."
 
"It also gives an insight into how a post-conflict society continues to turn a blind eye to the importance of mental health services despite a suicide epidemic."

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Re: Northern Ireland has the highest rate of suicide in the UK
« Reply #153 on: October 29, 2019, 08:15:45 PM »
Tributes after body of missing Belfast man Noel McGrogan found

https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/tributes-after-body-of-missing-belfast-man-noel-mcgrogan-found-38642030.html 

Another lost soul, prayers and condolences to His Family.

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Re: Northern Ireland has the highest rate of suicide in the UK
« Reply #154 on: October 29, 2019, 08:29:21 PM »
Tributes after body of missing Belfast man Noel McGrogan found

https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/tributes-after-body-of-missing-belfast-man-noel-mcgrogan-found-38642030.html 
Very sad
Another lost soul, prayers and condolences to His Family.
:( very sad condolences to his family
The truth will set you free . I support Ballymurphy & Derry families Justice for the innocent

James James

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Re: Northern Ireland has the highest rate of suicide in the UK
« Reply #155 on: November 15, 2019, 03:34:02 AM »
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/lifeline-freephone-helpline

https://www.lifelinehelpline.info/          https://www.lifelinehelpline.info/page/contacting-lifeline.html

   

http://www.belfastforum.co.uk/index.php/topic,22457.msg1657798.html#msg1657798

Re: suicide awareness,, THE WEE WALK

Even if you do not feel suicidal if you are sufferring from depression I would recommend you call Lifeline. They are easy to talk/discuss your feelings with and are there for you 24/7.

We all need help at times in our life and there is no shame in asking for help. I myself have just asked for help and actually felt better even taking that small step. It will be a long journey but I now have the help I need so much.

Please ring them and know you are not alone in that dark place. If you suffer alone it will only get worse and although I am only on the start of my journey with them I trust they will help me.

They can not make my hurt go away I am not expecting that but even after talking to lifeline twice it helped me a little. So a little step at a time is all one can take so please do not suffer alone. .talk to Helpline and I have all of you relating to this post in my thoughts, take care and lift the phone.




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Re: Northern Ireland has the highest rate of suicide in the UK
« Reply #162 on: December 12, 2019, 01:11:48 AM »
https://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/liverpool-news/steven-gerrards-very-personal-tribute-17393988




"Steven Gerrard's very personal tribute to tragic Liverpool fan found dead at home"

"Steven was my son's hero but he has now turned into a real hero for all our family. He has helped save us."

"Former Liverpool captain Steven Gerrard has left a personal message on a memorial bench dedicated to a young Liverpool fan who died suddenly."

"Robert Fleming, 26, was found dead at home in Lisburn, Northern Ireland on June 5 last year."

"He had been suffering from depression."

"Robert was a devoted Liverpool fan and idolised Steven Gerrard."

"Earlier this year Steven met Robert's family at a coffee shop on Merseyside."

"Now Steven, who manages Rangers, has had a special plaque installed on a memorial bench to Robert back in Northern Ireland."

"The message reads:" ...

"In loving memory of Robert Fleming, 'You'll never walk alone'  Love from Steven Gerrard and all at the Steven Gerrard Foundation."

http://www.stevengerrardfoundation.org/

"CALM is a charity dedicated to preventing male suicide. They can be contacted on 0800 58 58 58 or online here . "
https://www.thecalmzone.net/

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